What Marcus Aurelius Taught Me About Life

What Marcus Aurelius Taught Me About Life | Finding Stillness in a Loud World

There was a time in my life when the world felt overwhelmingly loud. Messages piled up, ambitions clashed with reality, and every day brought a new wave of anxieties. In the midst of all that noise, I stumbled upon a book: "Meditations" by Marcus Aurelius.

Marcus Aurelius wasn’t just some stoic philosopher lost to history—he was the most powerful man in the world, Emperor of Rome, facing war, betrayal, and plague. Yet, rather than reacting with anger or despair, he wrote quietly to himself about patience, acceptance, and peace. That intrigued me. What could a man like him possibly teach someone like me?

The first lesson I absorbed was about control. Marcus wrote, “You have power over your mind—not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength.” I started thinking about how much time I wasted fretting over things I couldn’t change: cancellations, criticism, even the weather. Gradually, I began to experiment. Next time a train ran late, or a plan fell through, I tried to catch myself—acknowledge the frustration, then let it pass.

It didn’t happen overnight, but slowly I found myself a little less rattled, a little more comfortable with uncertainty. The second teaching that stuck with me was his perspective on purpose. Marcus constantly reminded himself to “stop arguing about what a good man should be. Be one.” For years, I’d get stuck in endless questions: am I really living up to my values?

What if I make the wrong choice? But here was this emperor, urging action over contemplation. I realized that sometimes, the way forward isn’t a grand vision—it’s simply waking up, showing up, and doing the next right thing. Marcus also wrote, “When you arise in the morning, think of what a precious privilege it is to be alive—to breathe, to think, to enjoy, to love.” I remember reading that on a morning when I felt drained and chased by endless to-dos.

For a moment, I put down my phone, opened a window, and noticed the quiet hum of the city. I saw that even in chaos, there is beauty—if you choose to see it. Over time, the teachings of Marcus Aurelius became more than words. They became reminders: to focus on what matters, to accept what I cannot change, and to treat each day as both a challenge and a gift.

In a world of noise and speed, that ancient emperor taught me how to be still—and, in being still, to really live

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